Thursday 29 September 2011

Confidence versus Arrogance

There is such a thin line between confidence and arrogance, that I know many people that cross it without even being aware...
They don't believe their constant extolment of themselves in anyway resembles arrogance, they see it as merely a superior confidence than those too scared or naive to promote themselves. in short their pride out ways their modesty and they end up coming across as the very thing they profess themselves not to be -an arrogant individual who talks a good game but in reality is actually lacking in confidence, when you scratch beneath the surface you'll realize that all that awesome superiority is merely a thin veneer to mask their deep seated inadequacies. Deep down their really scared little boys and girls trying to be something they’re not!!promoting themselves, extolling their virtues, denying their faults....they become so enamored with being confident that they forget their actually not...one prick of their bubble and all that outshining confidence melts away as if it never was..

#Moral of the story-the most confident people in the world are those that do not feel the need to brag or extol on their confidence, they are aware that they are confident and realize that true confidence does not need to be flaunted or publically displayed...True confidence is discernible even when modesty keeps it hidden.
*Confidence is not achieved through your own promotion!*Extolling on your many virtues won't make you confident!!*Relating to the world the depth of your confidence does not make you confident. It only makes those around you aware of your complete lack of confidence, ending in pity or annoyance for your constant stream of positive virtues of yourself-basically annoyed at your arrogance#

Be Modestly Proud
Be Silently Confident
Be True To Who You Really Are....
I am a Proud and Confident Woman...Not because I show it..,but because deep down I know it.!

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